if you ask “who’s the man?” in a same sex relationship, you’re just proving that you believe there’s an inherent power imbalance in hetero relationships byeeeeeee

(Source: bitteryoungthing, via thehealthywarrior)

Important things I’ve learned in the last 6 months.


  • Always say yes to seeing friends
  • Eat breakfast every day
  • Recognize that positive change rarely happens overnight
  • Accept the fuck-ups, but try not to let them happen again
  • There is a song to remedy every situation on the planet
  • Appreciate the people in your life
  • Look for the good in everything
  • Try new things and try them often
  • Treat yourself as well as you treat others

(via happier-healthy-fitness)



shout out to sharee (funeralformyfat) for helping me get to this point
I can remember studying your tumblr every day back when I was just starting 
SW: 190
CW: 142

You look amazing!!!


*squats down to look in the refrigerator* fitness

(Source: illkim, via bye-bye-calories)


Here is a list of blogs, websites, or videos that can help you if you are suffering from anything listed below. If you do not suffer from any of these things listed, but do know someone that does suffer from anything listed, these links may also be helpful. Smile, it looks beautiful on you.

If you know of any website that is not listed that would be of help to anyone, please submit it to us here.
Also, our ask is always open, so click here if you ever feel the need to vent.
In case of an emergency, please call the emergency dispatch center.
Love Is Respect
Love Is Respect (Digital Abuse)
Love Is Respect (Emotional/Verbal Abuse)
Love Is Respect (Financial Abuse)
Love Is Respect (Physical Abuse)
Love Is Respect (Sexual Abuse)
Love Is Respect (Stalking)
Anxiety Disorder/Panic Attacks
Half of Us
Help Guide (Anxiety Attacks & Anxiety Disorder)
Help Guide (Anxiety Medicine)
Help Guide (General Anxiety Disorder)
Help Guide (How to Stop Worrying)
Help Guide (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder)
Help Guide (Panic Attacks & Panic Disorder)
Help Guide (Social Anxiety Disorder & Social Phobia)
Help Guide (Therapy)
Tanya Burr’s Blog Post
Zoe Sugg’s Blog Post
Zoe Sugg’s Video
Bipolar Disorders
Half of Us
Help Guide (Bipolar Disorder Medication Guide)
Help Guide (Self Help)
Help Guide (Signs and Symptoms)
Help Guide (Treatment)
Half of Us
Help Guide (Dealing with Depression)
Help Guide (Depression: Signs, Symptoms, Causes & Help)
Help Guide (Teenage Depression: A Guide for Parents)
Help Guide (Helping Someone with Depression)
Help Guide (Older Adults & Elderly)
Love is Louder
To Write Love on Her Arms
Eating Disorders
Half of Us
Help Guide (Emotional Eating)
Help Guide (Binge Eating)
Help Guide (Bulimia)
Help Guide (Helping Someone With an Eating Disorder)
Help Guide (Treatment and Recovery)
National Eating Disorder Association
Grief & Loss
Help Guide (Coping with a Breakup or Divorce)
Help Guide (Coping with Grief & Loss)
Help Guide (Coping with Pet Loss)
Help Guide (Supporting a Grieving Person)
Help Guide (The Five Stages of Grief)
Gay Center
The Trevor Project
Troye Sivan’s Video
Self Harm
Half of Us
Help Guide
Recover Your Life
Self-Injury Outreach & Support
The Butterfly Project
Staying Positive
Motivational Monday (Louise Pentland)
Tanya Burr’s Blog Post
Zoe Sugg’s Blog Post
Substance Abuse
Half of Us (Alcohol & Drugs)
Help Guide (Alcohol & Drugs)
Suicidal Thoughts/Suicide Prevention
American Foundation for Suicide Prevention
Befrienders World
Half of Us
Help Guide (Dealing with Suicidal Thoughts & Feelings)
Help Guide (Helping Someone with Bipolar Disorder)
Help Guide (Suicide Prevention)
International Association for Suicide Prevention
National Suicide Prevention Hotline
Help Guide (Emotional & Psychological Trauma)
Help Guide (PTSD)
Help Guide (Traumatic Stress)
Other Links
Emergency Compliment
Make Everything OK
Need A Hug
Rainy Mood
The Quiet Place
The Thoughts Room



What if you wake up one morning and you’re in bed with the love of your life and they have their arm around you and their snoring like a fucking ass hole, but you can’t help but to smile and you hear a baby crying and it finally hits you, you’ve made it.
you beat the demons inside you, the voices, the darkness.
I look forward to that, to knowing I made it.

this deserve so many notes

(via fitsportgirl)


Today, my delightful breakfast was whole wheat toast with peanut butter, jam, banana, and a pear (I dig it)